After a 2 year relationship.... please help!!!?

first of all, you don;t have to return anything. the relationship is over. don't use the sweater and the blanket as an excuse to go see her. in fact get rid of them or store them away for now so it isn't torturing you every second. look i know it is hard to break up with someone after 2 years I just broke up with my bf of 2 years ago a few months ago. You lose a part of yourself I understand that. but to me, she is just keeping you latched on to her and it isn't healthy. you need to go 60 days without communication and see how you feel. No if ands or buts about it baby. It is that simple, it just isn't that easy. take these 2 months to figure yourself out too. if after 2 months of NO TEXTING, CALLING, OR SEEING eachother you still "love her" then figure it out then but for now. just stay strong.