Is it normal for a bf to act this way?

So I have been officially dating my bf for about 2 months now but we have been exclusive for almost 3, and I know it is still early, but I am a little worried. Being that we both work full time jobs, we don't really have too much time to hang. I think in the time that I have been with him, I have maybe actually seen him for like 2 weeks worth of that time. Last weekend, I rented us a hotel in a nice part of town and he didnt even thank me initially, he only said, "Why would you pay that much? I wouldn't." Don't get me wrong, I can see why he said it but at the same time, I thought that it was something nice for both of us. Later that night, we were both drinking and I drank more then him, so naturally I was significantly more buzzed, and we started talking about our types. He decided to say, "Well, I don't normally date blonds...or heavier guys." Mind you, yeah I'm 220lbs at 6'1", but I am only 15% body fat. (As you can tell, I might have some weight issues, seeing as I have lost over 100 lbs in a year and a half.) So I took it lightly even though it bothered me inside. So the next day, he decides to play videogames and I do his dishes (mountains of them, literally!) just because I wanted to cook him dinner. After dishes and dinner were done he went back to playing the video game. Also, I didn't get a thank you until I actually bitched at him, I guess. So after like 8hrs of video games he was playing, I decided that I couldn't stay up anymore, so I went to bed. Well, my bf comes in an hour later and says, "What? You're going to bed?" And I was pretty much like, "Yeah." So I leave early the next day. This was a week ago. Over the course of the week, we have only texted each other. Well today I tried to get ahold of him and it took him four hours to respond with, "No, didn't hear my phone." Mind you the txt I sent before hand was, "Are you irritated with me or something? I feel you are getting distant from me." And when he said he was just relaxing, I asked him if he wanted to hang cause I haven't seen him in a week. He responded with "Honestly No, I want some alone time, haven't really had any lately, but I'd be game for tomorrow." I told him that it would depend, I might go out tonight. So anyways, my question is, should I be worried by his actions? Is this typical man behavior? Because I am not really like that personally, but I am not too educated on the whole dating scene all that much. Anywho, any tips? Advice?